Wow, this is a subject I hold near and dear to my heart. Every story is an agony of this very thing, for me. I'm very tempted to follow your lead, but I'm afraid that people will feel compelled to pet me and try to make me feel better about things. Maybe with comments disabled? Except I love to hear what other people think on this subject, because it makes me feel less alone in the world. Hmm. *ponders*